He picked flaws in others to hide his own. - Shine Kapoor
Many a times, the flaws one picks in others, could be the ones that one holds deep within. It is just an act to console one's conscious that it is okay, many people have it, this society is full of people who have a flaw like me, so let it be and I could be not wrong.
But if 50 people do a foolish thing, it still will be a foolish thing. If you choose to go the right way and you do not have supporters. You still are right!
The point is when do you know if it is right? There is a possibility that those 50 people find doing a foolish thing as doing the right thing.
Check if it is a trap.
Check again if it is a trap..
Try to mend it...
Try again....
Realize it is beyond repair.....
Move out of the situation......
Look back.......
Fall in a rut or smile at the experience........
Avoid looking back.........
Look within before you end up deriving a psychoanalysis on someone.
A
manipulator is someone who will try to get the best out of every
situation. Will not out-rightly manipulate you but put you in situations
where you are likely to behave or act in a desired manner.
Author's Note: Liars lie, cheaters cheat and manipulators manipulate. End of story!
P.S.: I tried to bring out emotions related to judgements and my way to fighting with the wrongs I do.
P.P.S.: Yes I can be wrong, but I would like to commit a wrong and learn my own lesson than to follow what others feel is right.
Many a times, the flaws one picks in others, could be the ones that one holds deep within. It is just an act to console one's conscious that it is okay, many people have it, this society is full of people who have a flaw like me, so let it be and I could be not wrong.
But if 50 people do a foolish thing, it still will be a foolish thing. If you choose to go the right way and you do not have supporters. You still are right!
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The point is when do you know if it is right? There is a possibility that those 50 people find doing a foolish thing as doing the right thing.
- This is the time for a conscious call.
- Does your conscious allow you to do this?
- Are you hurting someone?
- Are you taking advantage of the situation?
Check if it is a trap.
Check again if it is a trap..
Try to mend it...
Try again....
Realize it is beyond repair.....
Move out of the situation......
Look back.......
Fall in a rut or smile at the experience........
Avoid looking back.........
Look within before you end up deriving a psychoanalysis on someone.
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Author's Note: Liars lie, cheaters cheat and manipulators manipulate. End of story!
P.S.: I tried to bring out emotions related to judgements and my way to fighting with the wrongs I do.
P.P.S.: Yes I can be wrong, but I would like to commit a wrong and learn my own lesson than to follow what others feel is right.
This one is awesome Shine!! My most fav so far!! Judgments - they are not always right, isn't it?
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Thanks Sri. It needs a sharp mind reader to nail judgements.
DeleteBrilliantly written, you nailed it! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you :)
DeleteThank God, judgements are often wrong.
ReplyDeleteDrusilla
:)
DeleteIt is best not to judge. Only one can judge.
ReplyDeleteJudgements are so engrained in our minds though :-/
DeleteBrilliantly put forward thought shine!!!
ReplyDeleteThankyou Shesha
DeleteDon't judge a book by its cover and never follow blindly in anyone's path. A great post about judgements, thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThanks fr commenting. :)
DeleteI usually care a damn what people thing especially if I know I am right :D
ReplyDeletePhenoMenon
http://throodalookingglass.com/2014/04/jalapenos-a-twist-in-the-taste/
People judge even without knowing what stands right. It is good to follow your thoughts.
DeleteA very nice and deep analysis...
ReplyDeleteThanks :)
DeleteSometimes we can't help that we end up judging...That's human I guess but the way you suggested to weigh and decide seems quite workable...A good analysis...
ReplyDeleteLatest A2Z Challenge Post-Random Thoughts Naba
I do that but I try my best to not let that show. Thanks
Deletevery nicely written.. yes we do go wrong in judgement... I feel what is important is to accept whenever you realise you went wrong with it . No need to get stuck
ReplyDeleteThank you Shiva
DeleteIt is a difficult thing - not to really judge others and still have a bias toward what we think is the "right" thing to do...But I guess that's what makes us human - to err and then learn from the experience. Nice one!
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Totally agree. I go by my face reading skills and so far i hv been right. I try not to impose my judgements on others.
DeleteI always wonder if I have a good judgement.I believe to soon. You have written it brilliantly.
ReplyDeleteThanks Rajlakshmi. Believing is not bad but believing after being lied to or cheated on is :)
Deleteno one's perfect everyone has flaws........... some are apparent some not......... only thing t imp. is that,to let ur mind speak wisely.
ReplyDeleteI agree nitya. Thanks for commenting
Deleteno one's perfect everyone has flaws........... some are apparent some not......... only thing t imp. is that,to let ur mind speak wisely.
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