Friday, 11 April 2014

Judgements: A-to-Z Challenge [11 April 2014]

He picked flaws in others to hide his own. - Shine Kapoor

Many a times, the flaws one picks in others, could be the ones that one holds deep within. It is just an act to console one's conscious that it is okay, many people have it, this society is full of people who have a flaw like me, so let it be and I could be not wrong.

But if 50 people do a foolish thing, it still will be a foolish thing. If you choose to go the right way and you do not have supporters. You still are right!
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The point is when do you know if it is right? There is a possibility that those 50 people find doing a foolish thing as doing the right thing.

  • This is the time for a conscious call.
  • Does your conscious allow you to do this?
  • Are you hurting someone?
  • Are you taking advantage of the situation?
We all take our own time to fall out of a trap. There are various phases involved.

Check if it is a trap.
Check again if it is a trap..
Try to mend it...
Try again....
Realize it is beyond repair.....
Move out of the situation......
Look back....... 
Fall in a rut or smile at the experience........
Avoid looking back.........

Look within before you end up deriving a psychoanalysis on someone.

Badge : A-to-Z Challenge [April 2014]
A manipulator is someone who will try to get the best out of every situation. Will not out-rightly manipulate you but put you in situations where you are likely to behave or act in a desired manner.

Author's Note: Liars lie, cheaters cheat and manipulators manipulate. End of story!

P.S.: I tried to bring out emotions related to judgements and my way to fighting with the wrongs I do.


P.P.S.: Yes I can be wrong, but I would like to commit a wrong and learn my own lesson than to follow what others feel is right.

27 comments:

  1. This one is awesome Shine!! My most fav so far!! Judgments - they are not always right, isn't it?

    ~S(t)ri
    Participant|AtoZ Challenge 2014
    Smile, it makes (y)our day!

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    1. Thanks Sri. It needs a sharp mind reader to nail judgements.

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  2. Brilliantly written, you nailed it! :)

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  3. Thank God, judgements are often wrong.

    Drusilla

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  4. It is best not to judge. Only one can judge.

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    1. Judgements are so engrained in our minds though :-/

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  5. Brilliantly put forward thought shine!!!

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  6. Don't judge a book by its cover and never follow blindly in anyone's path. A great post about judgements, thanks for sharing.

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  7. I usually care a damn what people thing especially if I know I am right :D

    PhenoMenon
    http://throodalookingglass.com/2014/04/jalapenos-a-twist-in-the-taste/

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    1. People judge even without knowing what stands right. It is good to follow your thoughts.

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  8. A very nice and deep analysis...

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  9. Sometimes we can't help that we end up judging...That's human I guess but the way you suggested to weigh and decide seems quite workable...A good analysis...

    Latest A2Z Challenge Post-Random Thoughts Naba

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    1. I do that but I try my best to not let that show. Thanks

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  10. very nicely written.. yes we do go wrong in judgement... I feel what is important is to accept whenever you realise you went wrong with it . No need to get stuck

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  11. It is a difficult thing - not to really judge others and still have a bias toward what we think is the "right" thing to do...But I guess that's what makes us human - to err and then learn from the experience. Nice one!

    Beauty Interprets, Expresses, Manifests the Eternal

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    1. Totally agree. I go by my face reading skills and so far i hv been right. I try not to impose my judgements on others.

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  12. I always wonder if I have a good judgement.I believe to soon. You have written it brilliantly.

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    1. Thanks Rajlakshmi. Believing is not bad but believing after being lied to or cheated on is :)

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  13. no one's perfect everyone has flaws........... some are apparent some not......... only thing t imp. is that,to let ur mind speak wisely.

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    1. I agree nitya. Thanks for commenting

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  14. no one's perfect everyone has flaws........... some are apparent some not......... only thing t imp. is that,to let ur mind speak wisely.

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